I don’t know how it is for men because I’ve never had the opportunity to have a penis for a day, but for women, there are all different kinds of orgasms that we can have based on how they’re reached.
I have the wham-bam thank you ma’am quickie orgasm when I give them to myself, and those are well and good for relief of stress and sexual tension for sure, but they’re nothing like the kind I can have with my partner.
There’s the sweet, slow build of orgasm that comes from making love in the missionary position, the deep, G-spot stimulating orgasm that’s usually met with your partner cumming with you.
There’s the explosive, clit stimulating orgasm that I get when I’m on top, riding my man fast and hard and furiously until the friction and energy and passion come to a head.
Then, of course, there’s that tingling, titillating, full body feeling of exquisite pleasure from the orgasms that come when a man goes down on me and licks and sucks my clit with the enthusiasm that we all deserve.
All of them are great orgasms, all of them serve their purpose, whether it be just to get myself off or to connect me more with my partner, and all of them can be made a little bit better by following these three simple tips for women to have a better orgasm:
Feel good first.
The thing is, having an orgasm is as much as mental thing as it is physical.
Do you feel sick, tired, achey, or annoyed?
None of those things are conducive to having a good orgasm, let alone good sex.
If you’re not in the right mindset to dedicate yourself to having pleasure, you might just not get there, and that would be sad.
You need to already feel good to feel really, really good, and that could mean that you need more sleep, need more stimulation and foreplay, or just need a night off once in a while if you don’t think it’s going to happen — which happens, unfortunately.
In short, you really have to be in the mood if you want to have a fantastic orgasm, and getting in the mood can mean anything from getting seduced by your partner, by touching yourself, by fantasizing about what you want to do and feel…whatever tickles your pickle, so to speak.
So, before you get yourself into a sexual situation, try to get yourself into the right sexual mindset, too, ready to give and receive all the pleasure there is to be had.
Take your sweet, sweet time.
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