Sometimes, he’s not going to think that he wants a serious relationship with you right off the bat. It’s up to you to encourage him to invest, so the best thing to do is to show him that his life is considerably better with you in it.
Not only do you feel this need to be reassured so you can feel satisfied in your relationship, but you also want to make sure your love story continues to evolve. This is why getting him to miss you can prove to be a real solution. On top of being sure about his feelings for you, you can also multiply them ten-fold.
5. Make the time you spend together amazing so he wants you around more.
As they say, “Absence makes the heart grow fonder.”
When you are able to get a guy to miss you, you switch up the power play between you and make his deeper feelings for you develop much faster. So, by making sure that your time together is good, and you truly enjoy one another’s company, you’ll guarantee he’ll think about you when you’re not there.
You can also remind him about how much he wants to be with you via text. How do you make him miss you over text? Well, a little flirtation and promises about your next meeting are sure to make his head spin a little. Post pictures (tasteful ones!), and call or text to get him thinking about you — and only you.
He’ll want to spend more time with you and look forward to your time together. This can work for a long-distance relationship as well.
6. Make him miss you by not contacting him.
This is part of letting him take initiative in your relationship, and it’s one of the most common mistakes women make with a new love interest. Does silence make a man miss you? Yes, it does!
You may tend to cling to the guy you’re with, or if you’re still in the seduction phase, tend to be a bit too present. You don’t allow for space between you that could give rise to his feelings of missing you.
Simply put, the less present you are, the more he’s going to miss you in the long term.
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If you don’t give him the opportunity, how is he supposed to miss you? The more a woman pulls away or feels inaccessible to a man, the more likely he is to try and get closer to her — you’ve probably already seen this phenomenon when it comes to flirtation.
7. Make yourself stick out in his mind.
If you want this guy to see that you’re something special and remain in the forefront of his mind, be the one who listens and understands.
Be the one that’s unlike everyone else. I’m not just talking about the physical aspect — even though you should take care of your body and your image. The center of your focus should be on the sentimental aspect.
Make sure that when you’re together, you’re really building an emotional and sentimental bond with one another. A man feels attracted to someone he can share his emotional side with, as well as the physical.
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Be the one that he’s able to turn to so that you can reinforce the quality of the connection between you. By doing so, the idea of not having you around is going to make him want to get closer to you. In challenging moments, you have to be there for him.
8. Develop new activities together — just the two of you.
One of the best ways to make him miss you is to ensure that the time you do spend together is unforgettable. On top of enjoying your time together, you’re also making positive memories that can help build your relationship and make him miss you, even when you’re far from each other.
Have you ever found yourself smiling just because you were thinking about a special moment the two of you shared? A silly post on social media that reminds you of an inside joke?
At that time there’s only one thing on your mind: seeing him and experiencing that joy again. Keep this in mind when you want to make him miss you.
By sharing and discovering new activities together, you’ll build a strong relationship and create wonderful memories. Memories like these are going to be of importance if you want to contrast a long-lasting love story.
Do n’t hesitate to take the initiative and turn your time away from one another into a meaningful opportunity to further solidify your relationship.
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Alex Cormont, founder of French Relationship Expert, is an expert in dating and relationships, working with women to help them find the right man and relationship they’ve always dreamt of. His expert advice has been featured on Forbes, Huffington Post, GQ, and Elle.
This article was originally published at French Relationship Expert . Reprinted with permission from the author.
